Positivism- A Choice?

Being positive i believe is a choice all of us have in our hands. One we have decided to be positive, our future life will be directed in that direction.

There are friends i know that are super negative, some who are super positve. The difference in their life can be seen significantly.

We all need to have positive people around us. I have many positive and cheery friends around me. There is this someone that is very positive in his view of life as well. He will always find opportunities to be happy, life greatest aim is to be happy. There are times whereby he will be upset, but after a short while he will pick himself up. Something i find courageous about him is that he CHOOSE to pick himsef up from dscouragement and not to be indulged in it. That by itself is a form of boldness and courage. While hanging out with him, i learnt a lot. Being happy, is by itself a choice.

You can give someone positive encouragement and positive feelings about themselves by using positive statements when talking to them. Try them on someone!

1. I like you!
2. I'm glad you're here today!
3. I'm glad you're in my den!
4. I thought of you during the week.
5. I think you're neat!
6. Nice job!
7. I knew you could do it!
8. Super!
9. I'm proud of you!
10. Fantastic!
11. I like the way you did that.
12. Thank you for helping.
13. Wow!
14. You must of been practicing.
15. I can tell you really worked on this.
16. Way to go!
17. That was the best ever!
18. Sensational!
19. That's right!
20. You figured that out fast.
21. Now you've got the hang of it.
22. Great!
23. You're really sharp today!
24. Outstanding!
25. Good thinking!
26. You really used your brain.
27. Bravo!
28. I'm glad you thought of that.
29. You're on the right track now.
30. You are a good listener.
31. That's really interesting.
32. We had a really good day!
33. I was proud to be with you on the trip.
34. Excellent!
35. You are so creative!
36. I like the way you handled that.
37. You have really improved.
38. Good idea!
39. You are so creative!
40. I would never have thought of that.
41. You're a good team member.
42. I like being with you.
43. I couldn't have done better myself!
44. You out did yourself today!
45. You make it look so easy!
46. Don't give up, you've almost got it!
47. You're really working hard today.
48. Keep on trying.
49. You're learning a lot.
50. You make my job fun!

Words can kill but words can also heal. One kind word will make someone day but one bitter word will ruin the self-esteem of one. Pastor Kong once said when you say one bitter word to someone, it will takes you to say 60 kind words to makeup for that 1 bitter word!

The bible says that words is like the rudder of a ship. Though small by it can control the entire ship.

No matter what situation we are in, let's find reason to be positive in every situation possible.

Signed,

sujia

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